And how to prevent them! As professionals offering dispute resolution services throughout Nelson, Tasman and Marlborough, we know that disputes with neighbours often start over small issues. If you can nip them in the bud early, when there is still goodwill between parties then they are often easily solved. Of course, it’s always better if they don’t happen at all. So, in this article, we’re sharing some top tips to help you avoid them! Read on to discover more.
Our top tips to help you avoid disputes with neighbours:
Be a friendly neighbour:
Welcoming new people into your community can be the beginning of positive relationships with your neighbours. A batch of cookies, bunch of flowers or just a friendly hello can be all it takes to start off on the right foot.
Get to know your closest neighbours:
No matter where you live, Nelson, Tasman or Marlborough, your next-door neighbours are generally the people that you might end up in a dispute with. Neighbourhood disputes, often start over fences, driveways and noise. So, by getting to know them you’ll foster goodwill from the get-go.
It’s good to talk:
Want to do something that might affect a neighbour? Cut down that tree or build a higher fence? Then talk it through with them. Spending this time upfront can make a huge difference to ongoing friendly relationships. And if they have concerns, take them seriously, even if they seem minor to you.
It’s also good to talk:
Yes, we know we just said that. But it works in reverse too. If your neighbour has done something without consulting you, and it’s upset you, tell them. They may be unaware they’ve caused you a problem.
Go early while goodwill is on your side:
Trying to resolve issues early, before they become a bigger problem is always the best way to resolve disputes with neighbours. It can help to discuss it with others you respect to check your perspective, and gain their suggestions and input. But, remember to focus on the problem not the person!
Compromise across the garden fence:
Show a willingness to compromise, meeting half way is always the key to dispute resolution. Look at constructive ways to resolve the issue not merely going over the things that can’t be changed.
Mind your mannerisms:
Finally, be assertive and avoid being aggressive or passive. Take a look at the graphic below from the British Columbia Personal Training Institute which outlines these behaviours.
If you have an ongoing dispute we can help. We offer a range of dispute resolution services throughout Nelson, Tasman and Marlborough.